Move The one thing we all hate to do, forgive. View Points: How you do forgive someone that has hurt you, lied to you, stole from you, played you, or stressed you out? How are you supposed to just drop everything and pretend that nothing happened? What about your feelings? What about the fact that you probably gave someone your all and it went unnoticed? What about the fact that he probably cheated on you? What about the fact that he forgot to tell you he has a girlfriend? What about all the time you lost? What about forgiveness? When will we realize that holding grudges will get us absolutely nowhere? Forgetting about the past, or allowing yourself to see that you can not stay in the same mind frame will help you move on. So what you feel like you wasted your time, or he played you? Guess what, he’s probably NOT thinking about you nor your feelings. He has in fact, moved on. So why are you “mourning” over what you can not control? Let go of the hurt and the pain; as long as you hold on to the hurt, you can not forgive. *Lesson to learn: let no one have so much control over you, that you can not realize your worth. amiyah speaks: forgiveness; a hard stepping stone in the life of many. why is it soo hard to let go of a past hurt or action? maybe , it's bcuz most don't understand forgiveness begins within YOU and not the oppressor. you spend sooo much time trying to b right that u end up being dead wrong. after all, we're only human. we must leave judgment alone ! if not, we will be forced to live through guilt and misary. taking a few steps can help u fly on ur "wings of forgiveness" : 1. Allow yourself to feel anger before trying to let go of ur hurt feelings. Consider how bad you feel and how you can protect urself from future harm. 2.forgive urself; u have to be true to u. admitting that there was an action that hurt u and u may feel like prevention could have taken place. we all make mistakes and put ourselves thru unnecessary situations 3.Talk to someone about ur feelings toward the opressor - u can't bottle ur emotions for long. u have to express urself wether it's through words or verbally. 4. Calm yourself down when the anger builds back up. Ur body goes into a mode where it feels at risk when u get angry and makes it harder for u to be rational! 5. Remind urself that u forgiving the other person is a gift to YOURSELF! thinking about ur own interest is easier than thinking about the other person! 6. Let someone know u have forgave the person! Forgiveness is easier to hold on to when it isn't in the privacy of your own heart ! Tell a close friend and even the wounded that u have moved on and closed the chapter because u have forgiven them ! 7. Write about how good it feels to be free of such a heavy burden. |
Sunday, March 21, 2010
forgiveness ;
ally speaks:
Thursday, March 18, 2010
Words to the Wise
Words to the Wise
ALLY SPEAKS
Take One:
Everyone in life should follow his or her OWN path. The media as well as other forms of entertainment or gossip has persuaded people to derive from their own thoughts.
Question #1 – Why would you do something because someone else did?
Question #2 – Do you have a mind of your own?
Question #3- Would you get your hair cut like Nicki Minaj?
· if you answered yes to Question #3, seek help NOW
In life, you should always try your best to be your own person. never let the thoughts or actions of another human being provoke you to do otherwise. Be a leader, NOT a follower.
Take Two:
PLEASE, someone tell me, who gave the world a license to start rapping?
Everyone is not musically or lyrically inclined. Why are there so many rap groups now? Everyone can NOT rap; just because something rhymes does not make it good.
Key Points*
*If you are going to make a mixtape, it should NOT sound like the following:
http://www.mediafire.com/?0d5tnmtuztm
*Stop referring to females and “dogs” or “garden tools”
*And most likely, probably, you do NOT go hard, so stop using that term
On a brighter note, never let anyone or anything stop you from your dreams or goals. However, remember, everyone can not be the next Drake.
*Ambition is the key to success
-ally.
AMIYAH SPEAKS
so, what happened to originality ?
was it a fad ?
just like parachute pants?
or , is it a never fading icon, like ralph lauren?
anyways
it seems to have been put on a back burner bcuz now a days people seem to be carbon copies of their friends, favorite celebrity, and idols.
FYI: THAT'S NOT WASSUP!
grow up!
with maturity comes understanding.
and understanding simply means learning who u are.
not who someone else wants u to be !
or who someone else is.
be you.
if you can't sing, don't try.
everyone ain't beyonce or Trey songz.
can't rap?
don't try to be young money!
you can't dance ?
don't try to imitate ABDC.
originality will take u places imitation won't.
words from the wise,
be you !
nothing more .
nothing less.
- the truth is LOVE.
amiyah.
-amiyah.
ALLY SPEAKS
Take One:
Everyone in life should follow his or her OWN path. The media as well as other forms of entertainment or gossip has persuaded people to derive from their own thoughts.
Question #1 – Why would you do something because someone else did?
Question #2 – Do you have a mind of your own?
Question #3- Would you get your hair cut like Nicki Minaj?
· if you answered yes to Question #3, seek help NOW
In life, you should always try your best to be your own person. never let the thoughts or actions of another human being provoke you to do otherwise. Be a leader, NOT a follower.
Take Two:
PLEASE, someone tell me, who gave the world a license to start rapping?
Everyone is not musically or lyrically inclined. Why are there so many rap groups now? Everyone can NOT rap; just because something rhymes does not make it good.
Key Points*
*If you are going to make a mixtape, it should NOT sound like the following:
http://www.mediafire.com/?0d5tnmtuztm
*Stop referring to females and “dogs” or “garden tools”
*And most likely, probably, you do NOT go hard, so stop using that term
On a brighter note, never let anyone or anything stop you from your dreams or goals. However, remember, everyone can not be the next Drake.
*Ambition is the key to success
-ally.
AMIYAH SPEAKS
so, what happened to originality ?
was it a fad ?
just like parachute pants?
or , is it a never fading icon, like ralph lauren?
anyways
it seems to have been put on a back burner bcuz now a days people seem to be carbon copies of their friends, favorite celebrity, and idols.
FYI: THAT'S NOT WASSUP!
grow up!
with maturity comes understanding.
and understanding simply means learning who u are.
not who someone else wants u to be !
or who someone else is.
be you.
if you can't sing, don't try.
everyone ain't beyonce or Trey songz.
can't rap?
don't try to be young money!
you can't dance ?
don't try to imitate ABDC.
originality will take u places imitation won't.
words from the wise,
be you !
nothing more .
nothing less.
- the truth is LOVE.
amiyah.
-amiyah.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
thingone, thingtwo, poetry.
Poetry/ a form of written expression pouring out your inward soul
In these poems, you will listen to our thoughts and feel our hearts
ALLY SPEAKS.
'Blindfold'
Treated me like waste
Broken heart, torn soul
And all alone because I didn't think I deserved better
Left on the battlefield cold and abandoned
Tried to sustain the weather, keep my head up
Lying to myself
I know I gave my all
My love was powerful and mighty, but you let it lapse in your arms
I've been through the storm and the motions with you
When will I come to the realization that I can not hurt anymore
I have to close the door, I have to let go
I have to let my feelings for you disintergrate
In the end, I'm left with your memories and your lost
Beautiful I was before you, strong I am after you.
-Ally.
AMIYAH SPEAKS
'Hurt No More'
He cut me
Not with a blade
But it sure felt like or
Look closely,You can still see those scars ,
Bur me,I can still feel them
Revisiting that experience ,
THOSE experiences,I made a life long decision
I don't wanna hurt no more
Believe it or not ,
Those gashes on my heart
Once held togetherAre slowly tearing apart
New scarsDon't get me wrong
They aren't that deep
But trust,
Nothing but pain
Is what seeps
Wounds in the same place
A battered heart
Not much
it take
A closed door.
Or so I thought
Slowly creeping open
Thoughts long forgot
I don't wanna hurt no more
-amiyah
'TRUST'
one word
yea, that's all
meaning yet unseen
-- a building block
So, if u ain't got it.u can forget constructing a bridge to my heart.
you just can't starta blockade.
u know,one that's stopping you from reaching my soul
It's just five letters tho,
RIGHT?
WRONG!
that's where the problem
L- I- E -S
between those things untrue
I want the T-R-U-T-H
That's all I ask,
Is that tooooo hard?
No,I think that's where u should start
- amiyah.
In these poems, you will listen to our thoughts and feel our hearts
ALLY SPEAKS.
'Blindfold'
Treated me like waste
Broken heart, torn soul
And all alone because I didn't think I deserved better
Left on the battlefield cold and abandoned
Tried to sustain the weather, keep my head up
Lying to myself
I know I gave my all
My love was powerful and mighty, but you let it lapse in your arms
I've been through the storm and the motions with you
When will I come to the realization that I can not hurt anymore
I have to close the door, I have to let go
I have to let my feelings for you disintergrate
In the end, I'm left with your memories and your lost
Beautiful I was before you, strong I am after you.
-Ally.
AMIYAH SPEAKS
'Hurt No More'
He cut me
Not with a blade
But it sure felt like or
Look closely,You can still see those scars ,
Bur me,I can still feel them
Revisiting that experience ,
THOSE experiences,I made a life long decision
I don't wanna hurt no more
Believe it or not ,
Those gashes on my heart
Once held togetherAre slowly tearing apart
New scarsDon't get me wrong
They aren't that deep
But trust,
Nothing but pain
Is what seeps
Wounds in the same place
A battered heart
Not much
it take
A closed door.
Or so I thought
Slowly creeping open
Thoughts long forgot
I don't wanna hurt no more
-amiyah
'TRUST'
one word
yea, that's all
meaning yet unseen
-- a building block
So, if u ain't got it.u can forget constructing a bridge to my heart.
you just can't starta blockade.
u know,one that's stopping you from reaching my soul
It's just five letters tho,
RIGHT?
WRONG!
that's where the problem
L- I- E -S
between those things untrue
I want the T-R-U-T-H
That's all I ask,
Is that tooooo hard?
No,I think that's where u should start
- amiyah.
our love
this video is a must see!
trey is NOT gay!
we refuse to believe it
http://www.treysongz.com/video/i-invented-sex/
trey is NOT gay!
we refuse to believe it
http://www.treysongz.com/video/i-invented-sex/
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